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I have a boyfriend,We started off as friends. I am a virgin by that I mean I have not had penetrative sex.I told him I want to get married a virgin, We are planning a future together. I love him, and he loves me too..I know that for a certainty…But am scared that I’ll lose him to those girls that can give him sex… Although, he z nuh a flirt,and has assured me of his unending faithfulness. How do u see him..Do I have anything to fear

4 thoughts on “Anonymous”

  1. What matters is your character towards him,and also if his character is good for you;
    As for loosing him to other girls”yes he may be having the feeling to have sex with some other girls,but believe me,the fact that you are good and faithful will always make him to have you in mind for marriage.men don’t marry because of who they had sex with,they can even marry you just to be the one that breaks that your virginity and your character will make the marriage last.so don’t be afraid.

  2. What matters is your character towards him,and also if his character is good for you;
    As for loosing him to other girls”yes he may be having the feeling to have sex with some other girls,but believe me,the fact that you are good and faithful will always make him to have you in mind for marriage.men don’t marry because of who they had sex with,they can even marry you just to be the one that breaks that your virginity and your character will make the marriage last.so don’t be afraid.

  3. There is nothing to fear. Looking at the situation you know him and trust him, though he may have feeling for another but those feeling are just temporary, what you should look out for, is to know his personality that is what he likes and what he don’t. But still maintain your vow of keeping your virginity, and since he love you he will try to keep his promise.
    Your fear might behave like others boy but I want you to trust in his word and at same time keep praying for him because the devil agent(evil ladies) are still out there.

  4. Dear sweet friend, I once use to think speaking this line is lame, until I fell into that situation myself.
    Intimacy is not sex and without sex you can have who wants you.
    NO MATTER WHAT YOU GIVE TO A MAN WHO DOES NOT WANT to STAY,HE WILL NEVER STAY.
    Relationship should be for reasonable adults who can reason together.
    Best wishes dearest friend

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