Im actually in a relationship with a guy that is actually serving right now. Im in 100l studying a course I dont actually like. The guy loves me and I know it but I have issues with his spending. He spent his tuition in 200l which brought a lot of wahala on my head because I wanted to assist but it really really affected my money. Now he is trying to assist his brother who also once spent his too. He already lost a year because of this issue. Do u think I should assist? In so frustrated. I can’t even point at one thing he has gotten for me before. I even give him money sometimes when he is broke. Dont you think its shameless of him?