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Here's my story. Dated this guy from when I really didn't feel any love for him until I eventually came to really love him. Along the line though, I discovered we weren't exactly compatible, *purposecompatibility* . I loved God so much and was a devout believer, he on the hand was just a passive Christian, he was catholic and I've been pentecostal all my life. I felt the leading of God to be with someone else who also told me God was leading him to me. Aside these things this guy that I loved was almost perfect, caring, loving and kind to a fault. Respected me so much and always put me first. But then, this new guy in picture was more 'purpose-compatible'. I've tried severally to wade the other guy off, telling him we can't get married and all that but he wouldn't go. He's been hospitalized after I told him that and I had to go back to being 'friends' with him. We are both finding it difficult to leave ourselves. What do you advise??