Here’s my story. Dated this guy from when I really didn’t feel any love for him until I eventually came to really love him. Along the line though, I discovered we weren’t exactly compatible, *purposecompatibility* . I loved God so much and was a devout believer, he on the hand was just a passive Christian, he was catholic and I’ve been pentecostal all my life. I felt the leading of God to be with someone else who also told me God was leading him to me. Aside these things this guy that I loved was almost perfect, caring, loving and kind to a fault. Respected me so much and always put me first. But then, this new guy in picture was more ‘purpose-compatible’.
I’ve tried severally to wade the other guy off, telling him we can’t get married and all that but he wouldn’t go. He’s been hospitalized after I told him that and I had to go back to being ‘friends’ with him. We are both finding it difficult to leave ourselves. What do you advise??
Anonymous
You can always shape someone to your size if truely he loves you ,he will adapt .but sometimes it is not about what you want,it is about what you need.to most Holly persons can’t live together without claiming most righteousness.
Anonymous
Be with who you see yourself being married to 10 years from now and who is more of a friend. Because that is what matters
Anonymous
If you see a man who is good and loves you so much please don’t let him go.in this age and time such men are scarce.if he loves you so much you can make him stop being a passive Christian and turn him into a very committed Christian
Anonymous
Follow who loves you more.