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Here is my story.There is this guy I dated,At first it was just a crush, I saw him and got attracted.,but as I got to know I got interested to him that it became difficult for me to spend a day without seeing or talking to him. As we all know misunderstandings between human is common, same thing happened to us, that when I got to know that he was never really interested in me not even as a friend. He’d think of me as a girl with no self respect a girl who can never say no, it really broke me B’se after a long time he was someone I truly love,he then went away for his studies
After two years we met at a funeral of his cousin who was my dearest friend,after that we parted way.But one week after the funeral he started contacting me again, he even shifted to my city again though this time it was professionally
So slowly we became friends again then one day after six months he asked me if we could get back together., It took me time to reply but since I still had feelings for him I said yes. Everything was so perfect than before. Now the problem came when I told him am leaving to another country for my studies, he began to ignore me, my calls, my texts and other weird behaviours
Ts been three months now since I came here and he’s still acting the same, but at times he gets so sweet that I fail to understand what he really wants from me(Does he really love me or not)
What really breaks me is I thought he is real B’se we both introduced each other to our moms, sisters and friends.
Everyday I get depressed thinking am I being made a fool again(I need help, I don’t know what to do or what to think anymore)

2 Comments
  • Anonymous
    6:03 AM, 16 December 2019

    Quite touching. I guess he’s hurting because you left and needs some time to heal. Try contacting him at a later time. If he does love you things will reconnect

  • Anonymous
    2:12 PM, 17 December 2019

    maybe what i’m going to write is worng but you said that he left for his studies during 2 years and he didn’t care about your feelings he didn’t care if you’re sad or no then when he came back you became his girlfriend like nothing happened and when you decided to left for your studies he’s acting like he’s sad, it’s true that i don’t now either him or you but if he really loves you he will care about your feelings like you did before 2 years ago ,oh it’s fine for him to leave you but you can’t leave him and besides he will respect your decision and leave for your studies to become an independent woman . maybe i’m not very good at
    giving advices but i hope you think really well before taking any decision

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