hello i’m a guy..19 years
im not feeling so good
so i broke up with my girlfriend a month ago..i was under a lot of pressure with work and a lot of things to be honest..i still love her but i had to break up with her it really ended badly via whats app chat…weve had issues in the past but i noticed when we both distant from each other things happen and we begin to fight week in week out…i got fed up and i broke up with her..
cause the pressure on me was way too much ..the responsibilities and all
she really demanded a lot of attention from me…at a point it messed up
got really bad but i had to do what i had to do
now im just trying to get over her and just be the best i can be but nothing is working
cause i still love her..even tho we both said harsh things and also
said some things that werent true
rn..getting over her hasnt been easy
and since i broke up..ive been feeling preety empty
like i feel really useless like everything is just plain …like i have nothing to live for…blocked all my contacts with her
big weeknd fan…thought i could use music to get over her
so some days i really hated her and whatever she put me through
but some days i really miss her and i love her
so..right now..im just messed up emotionally
Anonymous
If actually you are mostly on a constant quarrel with her then you should know that in marriage you will not have peace, it is normal to miss her because of the things you have shared with her,stop giving yourself reason to miss her if you know that you are mostly not happy with her,but if you have checked and discovered that the fault is from you then appologies,if none of it works,you need to remember all the Ill she did to you and how unhappy you were,use the memory to replace the old one and find someone else to feel up the gap,most times it is inability of you to get another girl that makes you feel you miss her or your you are trying to accomplish a sexual action will her which you haven’t done or you missed or it is as a result of Jealousy.
Anonymous
Please u have to try and control your pressure cus if u get her back the possibility of what happened before might repeat itself.so before u maybe go plead or start another relationship try and be accimidative.thanks