I am 24 years my boyfriend is 27 we started our relationship last year September am i graduate but tho to the pandemic i went into learning hand work tho my boyfriend paid for it but earlier dis year we are cool together but one day we had a misunderstanding i was so bad then i told one of my friend i would kill myself that my friend send all the chats to my boyfriend he was very angry that we almost broke up…..But lately he is very busy setting up his shop he hardly have time for me there is no morning message like before again sometimes if i don’t call or chat first he wouldn’t but he send me money every week as he always do like before….but am kind of confused if he still loves me probably he might be busy with the shop stuff or maybe he is trying to let go maybe is tired please help me
Anonymous
I think he is just busy as you rigtly said money make relationship go smoothly you should also try and get busy too.it helps the mind.
Anonymous
Your boyfriend is just stressed he still loves you but COVID-19 doesn’t make it to work
Anonymous
This pandemic has changed the way of life, it is now certain that it is not easy to survive on one source of Income. The covid 19 is a game changer and every wise person must quickly adapt to change.
First no matter the situation never you result to committing suicide. Difficulty are like ladders, you are meant to take up the challenge and climb to the top of your difficulties,
First at this point instead of being worried show him how much you care and let him know with your actions that you want to be there for him.
Support him in settings up his shop, share ideas together, let him know you are there for him good or bad.
You also need to look for things that keeps you busy. Don’t worry about him sending you messages, just continue to show him that you care about his business and him. Try not to nag about anything for now. Am I female like you, so don’t think am saying all this because i don’t understand, I understand you perfectly. Man of today like woman that are independent and don’t have to depend on them for everything after marriage. So be busy, work hard in your education, be supportive and understanding. I wish you both all the best in life. AK