I’m broken. I’ve known this guy since I was 14 and he was 17. it’s been 6 years and our relationship has been off and on. Most times we tend to break or we did break up, Bassey (his name is Bassey, I prefer to use it here, that’s okay) .. would get on with someone else. He’d post videos and pictures of him and his new girlfriend on his WhatsApp status. Long story made short, the last one that happened in December 2019 and I had to move on. A man from Turkey ( I’m Nigerian) saw me online and really liked me, talks with me all the time and cares for me . infact he got so attached to me that my family knew about him.he shows me off to his friends.. and all..long story made short..I still have feelings for my ex..I’m literally dying each time I see him post new girlfriend.. it’s been 6 weeks since we last spoke.this barely happens after each breakup and I’m the one who usually get us back together again cos of his ego or whatever..the truth is, I really messed him up and I’m ready to go into details if you want.. but true love shouldn’t fail and I’m expectant we’ll be back together but I doubt that so much now cos I just saw him use his girlfriend as his WhatsApp dp…I’m always stalking him tho..I want us back together, I just wanna talk to him..I feel the urge to text him right now hence I’m texting you first just to be sure this is the right thing to do .I’m close to his family too. His sister told me that he might not be really serious with his new girlfriend but But he seems happy with her from social media..Please tell me what to do cos I’m broken now😩😩😩
Anonymous
When I was 16 I had a girl friend tall and fair I so loved her and I wanted to marry her,I always called if she wronged me or I wronged her.so I decided not to call so that one day she would miss my absent and call but she did not then I realised she had moved on in her heart but just physical present with me.I hope this is not your case.try and let him call or come back for you for respect sake.