I’m very hurt feel my husband is cheating on me& i have talk to him about it,but seen like he doesn’t want to change so please how do i make him understand i love him and for him to stop cheating

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  • Angel Uzonwune
    6:41 PM, 8 October 2020

    Hello dear. Thank you for reaching out. I can not even bear to imagine how terrible you feel about your husband’s extra marital affairs but I can tell you with confidence that it’s going to be alright in the end Just stay strong.❤️
    Firstly, I need you to know that you’re not responsible for your husband’s actions in any way and there’s nothing you can do to make him change if he hasn’t truly decided in his heart that he wants to change. Therefore, do not blame yourself if you try all you can and he still doesn’t change. He should take the blame for his actions not you.
    That said, I’d advise you to pray to God for his guidance and the strength to fight and find a lasting solution to this issue. Continue to talk to your husband, continue to advise him and tell him the consequences of his actions. Let him know exactly how his actions affect you and how they make you feel so bad. Use subtle words and do not have this conversation in form of a quarell. Be gentle and talk to him with love.
    Also, continue to pray for God to touch his heart and help him to change from his former ways.
    Even though your husband has all the blame and it’s totally not your fault if he cheats on you, if you also think that there are things that you do or do not do that encourage him to cheat on you, like your mode of dressing, cleanliness e.t.c, try to work on those things as much as you can.
    If you do all of these and he still doesn’t stop, then I’d advise you to speak to a licensed therapist to be informed about the next line of action you should take
    It’s going to be alright. Stay strong🖤

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