My boyfriend keeps reminding me about working out but sometimes I get really lazy to workout, now he gets angry at everything little thing I do. sometimes for no reason,Brings back situations we promised never to talk about that really hurt in the past I just feel I don’t make him happy anymore I don’t know if it’s just the workout or something else is attached to the anger
Angel Uzonwune
Hello love,
I totally understand how you feel and it’s going to be alright. I promise 🖤
Well, I don’t think your boyfriend’s actions are justified if it’s all about the workout because a relationship where you are constantly verbally abused because of how your body looks, is a toxic one.
However, I can’t actually conclude now that your relationship is toxic because I don’t really totally understand at this point the true situation of things.
Therefore, I would advise that you try to communicate with your boyfriend and tell him how you truly feel about the way he talks to you. Pour your heart out to him and be truly sincere. If he empathises with you and tried to make changes, then I think they might be some hope for things to turn out better. But if he doesn’t and continues constantly verbally abusing you and bringing back things that have happened in the past, then I think you might just have to leave the relationship and find someone who loves you for who you are. A real man who truly loves you would never hurt you with his words intentionally.
You can as well pray to God for guidance and insight.
Once again, it’s going to be okay💚
Sending you love❤️❤️🖤