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I have a situation that's been weighing me down for some months. I dated a guy when I just got into school, our relationship lasted for just 11 months, tbh, this guy loves me like crazy. And he does everything I want him to do. He is a really nice person, not a church or Believing person like me but he is nice by all physical standards and will naturally pass for every woman's spec. Has some cool cash too,enough to take care of me and family. We broke up because asides he not being spiritual, we had communication issues and by that, what I mean is we reason on different levels, so he's hardly my conversation buddy, makes spending time with him really burdensome. A short while after I stopped dating him, I got into another relationship... And this time, I fell hard in love with this guy. He really loves me too. I'm not the type to ever be blinded by feelings, put him through some tests too which he passed sincerely. He's still without a good job for now. Communication level?? Almost Perfect! But here's the issue? My mother and I has been having issues since I announced my choice of a man, she says God said "my ex is my husband". That's one. I've refused to take that and now, it's almost turning my Best friend (mom) into my night mare. Shit is really terrible. Tell me, which is better to marry who you love or to marry who loves you.??