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I've been in a Long distance relationship for about a year and 7 months now. We didn't plan to do long distance for more than 3 or 4 months because I was supposed to get my student visa to the USA and then the plan was to get married shortly after I arrive. However, I've been denied visa 3 times with the 1 year and 7months. The strain of long distance is intense. Not only is it affecting us, the stress of Lagos is taking it's toll on me also. All of this has got me feeling really horrible and clueless about what to do next with my life. Plus my partner isn't very expressive so he doesn't seem to be able to meet my emotional needs. This also affects me adversely. I just feel so alone and lonely and forgotten by God. I feel like he's not hearing my prayers and seeing my efforts. I also really wonder these days if I'm with the right person or if I made the right choice. It's all a lot but this is the gist of it all.