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I don’t know how to make this short but I’d just skip to it.. So a friend of mine(I’d like to call him that) meddled in my relationship and told me partner things about me I’d have said at the right time on my own, it looks like they enjoy each others company and may even have feelings for each other.I'm just tired! Why will someone even do that to a person, now my partner is an ex now and calls me evil, sketchy and all sort of names you can think of because someone said things to him which 80% was a lie but I didn’t debunk any. My relationship always take a complete turn for the worse. Tell me what do I do? Should I be without friends in other to have a successful relationship? Or should or stop dating and focus on me ? I pretty much do things to please others and it’s my nature I can’t chnage.