I don’t understand myself lately i find girls attractive 😢😢😢 so so attractive am even crushing on a girl i just melt few days ago..and lately i see myself in dreams having sex with girls🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️its getting too much am just 20years..am even scared of telling my parents or fiancee
Anonymous
Finding a girl attractive us normal but finding any girl attractive is not normal, having sex in the dream is not cool but spiritually and psychologically.
You need to have a counselor who can help.
You also need to reduce your rate of watching porn or masturbating,it can cause this kind of problems.
Anonymous
Finding a girl attractive is normal but finding any girl attractive is not normal, having sex in the dream is not cool both spiritually and psychologically.
You need to have a counselor who can help.
You also need to reduce your rate of watching porn or masturbating,it can cause this kind of problems
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Are you a girl or a guy?
Anonymous
Am a girl
Gift Iwunze
Perhaps their is a possibility of you being a lesbian as you are attracted to girls……have you ever had any kind of attraction or sexual feelings towards a guy?
Anonymous
Yes but now i am both attracted to the both gender
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As a Christian and according to the holy book, sticking to the opposite sex which is guys will be my suggestion to you. Also from other researches and studies -https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4337813/, lesbians or people who sleep with same sex people have greater vulnerability to a wide range of health, mental health, and social problems such as eating disorders, sexually transmitted diseases, school difficulties, forced sex, homelessness, violence and suicide. So you are probably better off being with only guys and resisting the urge to be with girls
Chizi Frank
I am certain it’s just a feeling , and of course some dreams are our fantasies. Most fantasies may not be awful at the point of thinking or dreaming of them ,but we should be wise not to venture in.
So you can answer these questions ;-
What’s your sexual blue print ? -this means your idea about what sex should be. (I wouldn’t want to get spiritual here so answer it as biology what should sex be )
What informs your sex ideas ? Here I’m asking if it’s an experience , gay porn , or any other means.
Sincerely you can refocus by telling yourself some truth.