I had an issue with my boyfriend, which he just pick offense and end the relationship, funny enough it was nothing serious, I ask him out for a date so we can spend time together, and he declined it. I got upset, anytime I invite for occasions, he always declined, I asked him why, he picked offense that I am inconsiderate I don’t see his hard work, I know he works I don’t care if he rest well or not, that is over I shouldn’t call, text, nor visit him. Did I do anything wrong asking and complaining for him not honoring my invitation? What should i do now?
Anonymous
Hi I believe there are always two sides to a story and this is your side and maybe he needs space one good this about space is that it makes you understand what you have and what you don’t have
Anonymous
From your explanation (if this is exactly just what happened) then you have done nothing wrong. I think you only wanted more of him than he could offer at the time. He needs space. He needs to think it through. It might just be a rash decision. Do not shut yourself out just yet, it’s obvious that you want him back. So try to talk this over with him. If he wouldn’t see you then get a note across to him spilling just exactly what you feel. When the load is off your chest you’ll then decide to either wait or move on. His response to the note (if you get any) would determine your next line of action.
Anonymous
On the other hand, he also needs to set his priorities right. You, as his girlfriend should not be forced to beg for his attention.