I’m 21. I have always hated myself. I make people unhappy either knowingly or unknowingly. My mom do cry because of me. Have always felt unwanted. I do have different thoughts of committing suicide but something keep stopping me…I just need help. (Crying) can anyone help, I have no one to talk to not even a friend…
Anonymous
Hey. I want to give you a hug. I know how you feel. I hated myself for years, I would coastally distance myself from happiness because I did not think I deserved it. I have been on the verge of committing suicide a number of times. Sometimes the thoughts come back when my mental health is bad which is has been lately but I try remember it is temporary, that the situation right now is bad but it will get better.
What is your current situation. Who do you live with. What do you do in the day time?
Anonymous
Thanks for your reply. I’m a bit ok now. I live with my mom and siblings. Sometimes we are cool and most times we quarrel.
As at now, I spend my day doing nothing. It makes me dislike myself more. Im not lazy but I just couldn’t get a job.
Anonymous
You will get a job, always build yourself more against tomorrow’s opportunity and don’t stop searching for job,most times we have the ability to create a job for ourselves but we fail to realize that,if you think you need more of facts or someone to talk to,you can sign for a volunteer counselor.
Samantha Oyewole
Hey dear. Your self esteem starts from loving yourself. If you must reach great heights in life,you must love and believe in yourself. The love you have for yourself will keep you going when everyone backs out on you.
Anonymous
When you start loving and appreciating yourself,you will see people want to be friends with you