I feel trapped in a space that I don’t like… I feel palpitations…. I don’t feel free talking to the person I am meant to be involved with because of fear of being punished or ignored…….its been four months Ince I last saw him but we chat everyday..most times I have to say hello first. he didn’t use to be like this but changed because I hurt him. I didn’t cheat, abuse or be rude to him. he lost his uncle and I offered comfort the best way I could. but to him I wasn’t caring enough and he went cold on me……we tried to talk things out and I apologised and he said he had forgiven me only for him to keep away from me.. I reached out to him and he said we have a lot of things to talk about, agree on before we can get things back on track…its been four months… the idea of being in a relationship for me is companionship and believe in kindness….meaning no matter how much you think I mess up please be kind to me
Anonymous
Hi.four months is kind of much to be away from your partner more when the person is still in the country. I know that if he loves you he will do his beat to get to you and if he does not reach out for you then know that either there was no love or love have died.