My name is *****. I got married 10 years ago. I am blessed three children (2nd child no more). My husband is really cheating on me. I can’t even report him to any family member because my own side didn’t really approve him. He is a divorcee with two children. His former wife happens to be relate of his dad’s first wife. Even though it is glaring that he cheats , he still denies it to my face. He always gets annoyed anytime I try to prove to him that I don’t cheat. He did trust me at all. I had to let go or most of my male friends because he is always suspicious that I am dating them . He goes to the extent of checking my chat whenever am not around my phone or even at nights when am aspleep. Whenever we have little und understanding, he always want me to keep quiet and just stare at him even when what he is saying about me is not right. Anytime I try to reply me he always call me names(fool, idiots, useless being…). I don’t know what else to do. The love is no more there. He keeps on killing it. He chat and visit strange women outside our home. He do invite them his colleagues apartment on several occasions. His workplace is just a stone throw from home d wpite you hat he comes back home late. The loneliness is killing me. I cry almost every day. Please, I need your advice. Sorry for the long post. Thanks
Anonymous
Hello sorry its coming late,like the saying goes you cant change a grown man who do not want to change so for your sake ,you have to come to the fact that he is a cheater and stay with him as his wife or give se space so he will be able to do it openly.this is my though.