Hello, I am a 20 old lady, and I got into a relationship mid-April 2021, with an older guy. he lost his dad towards the end of 2020, and it took a toll on him. He is meant to assume the position of his father because he is the eldest in his family, but he is still in a tertiary institute and he feels the responsibility is too much on him. I feel he needs help to figure out what he wants his life to look like or be like in the nearest future, I’ve tried talking to him but I feel he just gets frustrated talking to me about some difficulty that arises/ that he face. I think he needs an anonymous friend to express his feelings and emotions freely, please I need your help.
Anonymous
My dear you need to give him time to adjust, right now what he needs is someone who will always encourage him and motivate him. Don’t be a burden to him, he doesn’t need another burden. So encourage, motivate, advice him every time and be always there for him.