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Good afternoon everyone. Pls I want to know if I'm being too careful. I'm 25 years old ready for marriage but still very much interested in being an independent woman. I once met a guy online, our first encounter was bad, although it was business related but few months later, he suddenly started showing interest in me, we spoke again and this time he was calm and friendly, he apologized and said he passing through a break up then. Now he calls almost every day, including video calls, he says he is a pastor, sent me clips of his ministrations yesterday. I went on his page and confirmed it to be true but now he is inviting me over to visit him.I refused and he offered to come, then next he is asking of hotels and saying I'll be spending two days with him, he wants to know me ..... He looks really convincing but I'm thinking he wants to play games. I'm a very responsible person, I don't want to mess up myself and I don't want to be too uptight too. I'm kinda confused. Are my being too cautious?