I am a 13year old girl dealing with serious depression.my mum doesn’t trust me at all and I have very strict parents am not allowed to talk,chat,ora call boys and I do sometimes and I get caught sometimes and there is this boy I really think I liked but ever since I started sending him bikini pics he distance himself from me and I thought I did something wrong but he made me believe I didn’t.i don’t send bikini pics to anyone but and he liked it .and I really wanted to know wat it is like to have a boyfriend or boy best friend and someone who cares but I think I am going to be single forever u might think I am to young to be dating but all my friends are which makes me very sad😟😟😟😟😟😭😭😭😭😭 I cry every night and my results in school are not good I planned for a glow up but I am not committed to it.i have no one to talk to you are my Last hope
Anonymous
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Anonymous
You are 13, I have something to share with you personally about what helped me when I was 13. Instead of crying I found something like movies, writing or anything that helped me escape reality trust me it helps. Anything at all except dating, anything that u alone can do
Anonymous
Yeah.
13 year old…
I had my first boy then too…now at 40, I look back and I realized I shouldn’t have.
There are serious pressures at that age to experiment things…trust me….I know.
And there’s a real tendency of making the wrong choices cos at that time I was just a fresh teenager…then when adulthood came, I realized I should have resisted the urge to join the crowd.
I am a doctor now, I believe my mistakes then were not so damaging but nowadays, life is quite different.
Now, your body should have a value that is determined by you….how much is your body worth?….is the guy in question rich enough on his own merit to afford you? My guess is, you don’t know,right? Then….a simple way to it is, if he can give you a check of 1000 dollars a week, he can have an access to your non-bikini pics…trust me, 1000 dollars is not much in today’s economy but at your age, you’ll need that much to avoid him blackmailing you with those pics when you finally become a great woman in future. If that thought isn’t scary enough then it could be worse….like imagine your bikini pictures on your school sign board….guys can be that bad….so….take your mind off them boys…. you will be taunted but trust me….it will be worth it…and find a skill online to learn… preferably a certificated one. Journal writing will also help to put your thoughts down….but avoid your pics in the wrong hands dear.
All the very best.
By the way, you write well for your age, I am impressed.
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Anonymous
Hey there dear,
I advise you forget all that dating stuffs for now cause it really hurts you know?
have fun when the right time comes you’ll find your perfect guy