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I'm 33 years old and in serious relationships with 2 ladies, both are 27 years old. One of the ladies lives in another city, some 3 hours drive away and we met on Facebook 3 years ago in what started with casual texting with each other. Feelings of romantic affections started developing mutually between us and eventually we declared love for each other after 8 months and the relationship has been growing strong . I met tge second lady just last year through a friend in what supposed to be a one off affair. After the encounter with this girl, we kept seeing once in a while. Yes, she stays in the same city as me, I couldn't stop having feelings for her due to the way she supports and respects me. Now I'm in a dilemma, no doubts that both ladies genuinely love me, now I want to get married and I can't marry both. It will hurt me to the marrows to see either of them hurt . Sincerely I have told the first girl that I have intentions of marrying her, but haven't mentioned anything of such to the other girl. I'm confused please, any genuine advice will be appreciated.  Thank you