I’m 33 years old and in serious relationships with 2 ladies, both are 27 years old. One of the ladies lives in another city, some 3 hours drive away and we met on Facebook 3 years ago in what started with casual texting with each other. Feelings of romantic affections started developing mutually between us and eventually we declared love for each other after 8 months and the relationship has been growing strong .
I met tge second lady just last year through a friend in what supposed to be a one off affair. After the encounter with this girl, we kept seeing once in a while. Yes, she stays in the same city as me, I couldn’t stop having feelings for her due to the way she supports and respects me.
Now I’m in a dilemma, no doubts that both ladies genuinely love me, now I want to get married and I can’t marry both. It will hurt me to the marrows to see either of them hurt . Sincerely I have told the first girl that I have intentions of marrying her, but haven’t mentioned anything of such to the other girl. I’m confused please, any genuine advice will be appreciated. Thank you
Anonymous
From my point of view,if you love 2 people it simply means you don’t love either of them, because when you love someone you wouldn’t want to cheat on them.
I feel you should talk to yourself and decide who you actually love and also think about the person’s impact in your life. Good luck bro!