I was friends with benefits with someone and I am having serious feelings for him.I told about it yesterday and he says he isn’t ready for a relationship of any sort.since yesterday he hasn’t replied my messages and it is really eating me up. My chest is so heavy.I don’t know what to do anymore.
Anonymous
It’s sad he doesn’t feel the same way. FWB hardly ends well. This is why people put in their mind that they are both using each other and try not to catch feelings. But It’s okay, just move on. There are plenty more out there. Just keep it as a memoir, rewrite it sweetly in your heart, and love yourself despite the hurtful feelings. In the future, I am sure you would know what to expect and how to act based on the person’s behaviour. But you would learn a lot faster if you simply focus on loving yourself more.