I am an 100level student,who recently just got admitted to delsu.i did predegree before my admission while doing predegree I meant this guy online on Facebook and it happens that he was in his final year in delsu I fell inlove with him and we started dating I was 18 and he was 30 as at last year.he wasn’t financially stable buh we were managing.not untill I found out abt his affair with a girl he claim to be his family friend and later said she’s is friend’s girlfriend.i hv done everything in other to keep us going he also sacrifice to make things work out buh the girl was still in the picture.it got to a point I saw their chats and they were dirty chats even still on that after comforting him and he apologized I forgave him and moved on.not just that one buh countless number of times I HV been hurt.i can’t even focused on my studies.of late bcuz he has access to my account he used my school fees without my permission without me knowing.i was stranded he also borrow money on my name’s even to buy pure water was a big problem for me.i had to mk some calls to get the money back after that he came back begging I already forgave him buh I told him we can’t data cuz I wasn’t benefiting anything from him.he loves me so much yes buh im always hurt am not comfortable I’m jst 18 and I’m going through this trauma instead of my studies.of late I made new friends in other to clear my head.i agreed to date my course mate not bcuz I love him buh bcuz I wanted to free my head.each tym I go to visit him this my ex will come from no where and starts banging on the door that I shud come out and he will start insulting me after that he will beg that we come back together.bub I HV made it known to him that I HV killed that feelings I had for him and we can’t date.buh he keeps on coming even my course mate is now avoiding me cuz of the trouble.pls I HV exams next week I really really need help cuz I’m emotionally drained and depressed
