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I'm married with two kids. My wife and I always have arguements time to time, on the average we argue like twice a week basically around things like misplaced items in the house, she talking back at me, raising her voice at small issues, not wanting to hear no because she feels she goes out of her to satisfy and make me happy and when it comes to her I don't take her seriously or I am not deliberate about her own things. She quit working as a micro finance bank loan officer due to the pregnancy of our first baby, and since then till now I'm been providing for things in the house, even with the token I earn. Tonight, I seem to be going crazy and I want to avoid violence at all cost. As I type I have my headphones plugged in because my music turned to the highest because she's been talking since like a crazy person. I wanted to push her out of our flat and lock the gate but that seems violent. I think I need to see a counselor maybe to stay in this marriage or end it. I'm not okay with the fact that we argue almost every day, and I want some sanity. I have work and extended family things I need to sort and she's making this immediate family where I'm supposed to get solace, she is making it complicated.