Ive been with my husband over 10years been married for 6years and i still dont know his closest friends too his work friends i have not met one i dont get invited to anything to do with him and his friends i know a bit of his family only cause i went to school with a few he recently told me he didnt wanna marry me after being married for 6years and with 2 children i think he has a 2nd life and all we do is argue over these things he knows my whole family well he knows all my friends well he knows everyone i work with i dont know what to do think or even feelp?