Before marriage my husband cheated on me several times and it was obvious then he had someone else in mind for marriage but because his family love me he had no option and I also love him so much that I can’t do without him now it 5 years into the marriage and am having issues taking the past off my mind which is really affecting me while my husband on the other hand now love and care alot for me. He shower me with love and affection and doesn’t even do shit again but the past won’t leave me which makes me do silly things to him that my sexual life is also affected but I still love him
Anonymous
The best you can do to make your marriage work is for you to go in for therapy so you get healed since he still loves and cares about you.
It is only human to feel that way, but it also shows how wounded you were with his action.
Time may not heal this wound but personal therapy will. Go for professional counselling.
Anonymous
Forgive him. Seeing a counsellor would help to process your pain.