Good day ma/ sir! I am a Nigerian and from kaduna State, even though I am mixed, having igbo woman as a mother and a northerner as a father. Well, I didn’t grew up to see my father as they separated before I was born, however, I grew up wif my mum and I am only child she had.i got all the loves and everything from her as she struggled to see me become a great man.my mum died 2016 when I was in 200l in University and that was the beginning of my challenge. Well, during this stipulated time, I don’t knw any thing abt love and affection except for that, that comes from my mum… meanwhile, I am a graduate now and 28years now but no lady has ever found me okay, even when I had to do anything possible to please those that are around me but to no avail…well, I don’t control my feelings and I do portray that to even my female friends and right now I am totally down as I don’t knw what my problem is. When a lady rejects me I do take sleeping pill for some days ( though I study medicine ) .I don’t knw where to begin. I came and across u and I thought of revealing some of my delima perhaps, u would be of help.thank u.
Anonymous
Sorry about your loss. I think you need to develop a sense of self so that you understand and appreciate who you are, and grow into who you want to become that would be beneficial for your relationships too.
You can book a session with me if you want to take this further. https://counselling.truthshare.com.ng/counsellors/Blessing-Onwuamah-30