So i dated a guy that was first my friend, along the line we started having sex more often and even when he initiated the idea of us dating i declined cause at the time i noticed he was flirting with ladies…. Fast forward to this year, we decided to date, hes sweet and caring no doubt but then he doesnt really consider the idea of settling down anytime soon, when i asked if he would if hes financially buoyant, he said he aint sure until then….. I dont know if i should still continue with the relationship since hes not sure of what he wants.
Anonymous
Well from your info you and this young man aren’t on the same page. He wants sex and you want a committed person who can become a husband in the nearest future.
If you continue without knowing what or where this is leading you will feel bad in the long run (it’s possible you are already feeling the signs).
I will say, stop having sex with him and give yourself some time to reevaluate the entire relationship. Then you can leave and be ready for a more serious person.