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I have been married for almost 2 years and my wife

I have been married for almost 2 years and my wife is not yet pregnant, we later found out the problem was from me. I’ve always looked up to being a father but it seems my world had turned upside down. I feel so ashamed cos of this and I can’t blame anyone not even my parents but sometimes I have this feeling that they put me into this mess. My wife has refused to adopt and she wouldn’t want a divorce either, she complains about our infertility. I’m a struggling guy and don’t have enough money to fund infertility treatment. This had made me loose interest in life. All my life I’ve been suffering and now this again.

6 thoughts on “I have been married for almost 2 years and my wife”

  1. Goodday sir.its really hard to be in the situation of not been able to have a child but the truth is that there are other options either by science or natural,if the scientific aspect seems so expensive then you can try doing research on natural remedies.
    Sometimes change of diet,habits, lifestyle can give your your treatment.

  2. Thank you for your suggestions. Only that this condition has more to it than lifestyle or diets. It’s like a birth defect. Scientific aspect seems to be the only hope now and it’s very expensive. Anytime I remember this is my condition, I feel life is not worth anything for me anymore. I’ve lost interest in a lot of things I used to enjoy doing before

  3. I would have given the same response as the first person but for your feedback.

    You need to be open minded. Since it is scientific it means there is a solution. You just need to plan for that. It does mean how much that is involve.

    But first you need to be alive before you think of having a child. It may be very tasking but with the understanding of your wife and her support, you will be fine.

  4. I know a lot of peop[le are going to bash this but is the purpose of marriage about a child, I know we all want to recreate ourselves and live our lives through our little one, but I think we have made it a primary reason to be married and so the moment we cant fulfill that dream the purpose of the marriage come o the ground as well as the marriage, our priorities for getting married shouldn’t be solely on having children, married couples should have goals for marriage and one of them shouldn’t be children, children are a blessing, but not the purpose of a marriage….. God has reasons for everything, and this doesn’t make you any less a man than you are, focus on God and how to make your marriage a success, and enjoy it.

  5. Words are easy to utter, even when it comes with pure sincerity. I salute the brilliant and intelligent comments under this post and I must say to you sir, one of the reasons when you could express yourself here is because you have a string of hope in you, maybe this case can not be generalized but if you won’t mind, I will like to have a private time with you coz certainly being alive validates hope. I await your response.

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