My husband is keeping a married female friend, though they av been friends before she got married. When I confronted him when the lady is still single he said they are friends though he has feelings for her ń wanted to marry her then cos of our sexual life. He promise he will change and I did everything to improve on our sexual life.
Recently he gave me his phone cos he bought another one, he deleted all his app but forgot one ń went through ń tọ my greatest suprise I saw all their conversations, including planning to live today. As usual he denaid all all a ligation but said he is not planning to have two wives.
My question is how do I stop my husband from communicating with this lady, as Quran also preach against Infidelity ń I don’t want the wrat of Allah. I have be depressed for over two months now and don’t know what to do?
Anonymous
Hi.i think you know your husband more than everyother person,you know when he is happy and sad,you know when he is ready to talk.so take advantage of the best moment to confront him in a peaceful way and i believe there will be a change in the situation.
Anonymous
I’ve tried this and still no changes though he keeps hiding it
Anonymous
Hello,
So sorry about what you’re experiencing with your husband right now.
First thing is that you take care of yourself and get out of Depression as fast as you can, bcos with or without your husband, you have your life to live.
Then look for a family member or friend to whom your husband defer as carry the fellow along.
Most importantly you both need professional counselling to salvage your marriage.
You will get there.