I have a one year and some months relationship,
My lady, was so nice and kind to me, and me too I love her and was also kind and nice to her.
Within this same periods , she Neve cheated I too never cheated, but got to a time after, she hard abortion for me she started misbehaving, I inniatially told her to keep the BBY and I will take responsibility, yet she said no with the advice of her sister, she went on removing the BBY. ðŸ˜
After some times her character changed we lived we meet we talk we call we make sure that we keep seeing each other and after then, we hard no any other such complications.
I always tell her that am suspecting someone else in her life. Aside me. But she always deny that and force me believe is me and me alone.
We normally check on each other’s phone,
But suddenly she stopped giving me her phone, I started living by that.
Later she hardly obey me,
Lastly she told me she don’t have feelings for me anymore
I tried to get the reasons she said is not but later found out from her status .
That is because of the abortions that. She hate me so much.
And I can’t move on without her , she suffered for me pull of blood for me,
And much more. I so much value her, and can’t let her go I have pleaded and pleaded yet she refused. Looking into my eyes and telling me it is over.
But should give her two months to see if she can have small feelings for me again. That after which she can come back.
But to me is a means to end us permently.
I need someone to counsel us on the part of how to move on regardless of sins.
Anonymous
hello sir like you rightly said that she started hating you after the abortion,yes its a nornal thing maybe after she has seen what she has passed through for you and you want her to keep the babby and still be your girlfriend that girl want more than a girlfriend status .to get her back you might need to step it up.
Anonymous
At this point what she needs is relationship security. She talks to her sister and she has friends, she watches movies also. Lessons and advices from all these people can influence her love for you. Brother suggest to her that you want to take the relationship to the next level and lets see her reaction.
Anonymous
At this point what she needs is relationship security. She talks to her sister and she has friends, she watches movies also. Lessons and advices from all these people can influence her love for you. Brother suggest to her that you want to take the relationship to the next level and lets see her reaction. Are you really willing to get tied to Her?