I met a guy who I loved so much but he had no job, each time I talked about getting a job, he will tell me not to worry that he had plans. we later got married yet no job, He only gets money from his elder siblings. When I could no longer take it I started putting pressure on him to get a job this time he started saying he can not work for anyone that he needs his own business but no money. That was when all the trouble started, he would abuse me, beat me making me feel I’m nothing, along the line I developed low self-esteem. When things were so hard I went to learn how to make snacks, after the training I started selling little little snacks. My husband later agreed to work ten years after our marriage. I went through a lot of emotional troma over the years that has led to depression and anxiety. Please what can I do?
Anonymous
Hi.your story is a sad one that has a happy ending all you have to do now to your anxiety is to keep on working on your progress and continue to encourage your husband.
Anonymous
Thanks so much. Your advice is so helpful