Where do i start from, feel like I am going crazy, its been 6 weeks since i found out i was being cheated on and replaced even after giving it everything, being the most loyal and loving partner.. Yeah I had my flaws we are humans but I did right by her and up till now I’m still broken, cant get a grip of myself even at work. Okay so I had just got out of a relationship where I was cheated on then i decided to wait at least a year before starting something serious, yeah I had the flings and all I guess I didnt let myself process the first betrayal properly. A year passed I met her the most beautiful girl ever, I literally said to myself I’m gonna marry this girl. Did everything right, months of talking stages and all. We started dating she travelled to Abuja, after a few months of us dating she met this rich guy and cheated with him, and guess what I forgave her, I found out by going through her phone, yes I had trust issues cause she was acting up. Moving forward she promised not to do anything again, I believed because she was crying profusely and all, and I just didn’t want to start anew thing again. Months went by things were okay but whenever we were apart, she always made it feel like she was not contented with me, I mean i’m not poor or anything I’m a young guy with a great job and all, I do the most, but I guess it wasn’t enough. Long story short she’s always untruthful, then one time she gave me access to her email, and I saw the most, bolt rides to guys house credit alerts. I was going crazy mehn, like I was blowing my back for someone that was probably cheating again, I didnt know what to do, I loved her too deep more than I did myself, then I decided to text the particular guy that has been sending her money, it was really low, I just wanted to know. He said they have been dating months back she told him she had broken up with me I should get a life this and that, then he told her I messaged him and you know what she did, no apology, no explanation, she blocked me everywhere, mehn I was literally going crazy . Some weeks have passed i’m getting better I know time will heal, but I still feel so bad, cry myself to bed, feel betrayed not interested in anything. I think I need to talk to someone or therapy, cause I dont even know how long it will last, but the memories keep coming and it keeps putting me down.
Truthshare
I am sorry to hear that. It must be a difficult situation to be in. Considering your situation, you need a support system to help you move on; talk to someone you trust, like a friend, family member or a therapist about how you feel.
It’s important you consider your own well-being and make the decision to move on and heal from her.
Remember you deserve a relationship where you feel respected and valued/treated like you matter; because you do.
Anonymous
Why do good people, or at the very least people that try their best and give all they have to make someone happy, always get the short end of the stick?
Truthshare
It’s not true that good people always get the short end of the stick, but it does not take away the fact that not everyone knows how to appreciate the good things or people they have in their life.
Keep being the good person that you are, you will find your person. Someone as good and nice as you are.