My Marriage will be 3years soon. I love my husband so much and I see the same in him when we had our first pregnancy. After I gave birth, he changed a lot, he couldn’t help me with any thing at home again, meanwhile the finance of our home lies 70% on me, he is into online marketing, sometimes it come out well but most times it doesn’t come out well, I have discussed with him the need to apply for jobs and advise on business he can venture into because the home responsibility is really killing me. He said I can’t tell him what to do that I can only advice him and also he can only go for an office job, I am not happy, all he does is to stay at home, how will a man be sitting down at home. Just a diaper u can’t buy all because you fail to rise to your responsibility, if I turned him down in some crucial needs at home like filling of gas, he always reach out to his Dad or friends. I don’t know how long I will live like this, am getting tired everyday, he doesn’t help me until I begged and begged and he doesn’t take the financial responsibility too coupled with bad words, any little disagreement he will say is it because you are working? Please advise me on what to do.
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Hello friend.
It’s never nice to not feel supported by your partner in marriage and this is missing, there is dysfunction in the family.
You should try talking to him, by explaining how draining it feels being the only one to cater for the family. Seek financial counselling or help from close family members and also create a budget to help monitor your spendings.