Thanks for this opportunity…..
I had a talk with my fiance about finances and payment of bills after marriage.
I had the talk with him because I noticed he has the mindset of ‘whoever earns more pays the bills’. I actually earn more than he does presently buh I feel it’s awkward to have such mentality as a responsible man, so I had to have the talk with him.
Am I supposed to think this way?!
Was I wrong to have the talk with him?!
How are finances and bills supposed to be managed in marriage pls?!
Thanks a lot🙏
Truthshare
The responsibility for taking care of bills in a marriage can vary and is ultimately up to the both of you involved in the relationship to decide. Some couples choose to split the bills equally or based on each person’s income, while others may assign specific bills to each person to manage.
Ultimately, there should be a mutual decision between the both of you on how the bills should be managed. An open and transparent communication would help achieve that.