There is this guy that we’ve been talking for about 3yrs now although he didn’t ask me out but I’m in love with this guy and I think he loves me to some extent because of some bond we share
I asked him where this is leading to and He said we are friends but we act more like lovers, I really want to leave him now but mind isn’t just allowing me
I just don’t know what to do right now
Anonymous
It seems you have developed feelings for this guy over the course of your friendship. Also, since you have taken the bold step of trying to have a conversation with him about how you feel, and he has made it known to you that you are just friends then its only wise you try move on from him.
Being in a situationship can leave you hoping it will get better and also confused and unsure on what to do if you are seeking to be in a committed relationship. It can be difficult to let go of someone you really care about but is necessary for you to put your wellbeing and happiness first.
You have the choice to continue the relationship or end it but know that you deserve to be with someone who understands and reciprocates how you feel.