I feel less important in my relationship, I feel like I’m just the only one in the relationship with myself. I’m only there for the hard times, difficult times when thing gets better, I am left abandoned. He always says my actions influences his reaction/behaviour. He’s constantly cheating and will run back crying that he wants to fix his family while he’s busy seeing different women.
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It is important you prioritize your own wellbeing whilst trying to fix the relationship. Learn to carry yourself with confidence and understand how valuable you are, your life should not be centered around your relationship.
You need to have an honest conversation with your partner about how his recent actions have been affecting or been a source of concern to you. Seek counselling from a professional counsellor if the issue persists; guidance from a relationship counsellor can help you both work through your issues and find a way to fix it together.
Lastly, you deserve to be in a relationship where you are respected and treated right, you might need to end the relationship if your partner continues to be unfaithful. your partner should understand the importance of boundaries and how important trust is for a relationship to flourish.