So, I was humiliated today. I tried not desiring titles in other to avoid humiliation or trouble. sometime, tell myself I cannot do this, that. I think I would fail. So, I fear trying. But I tried to come out of that shell and participate. I told someone while thinking positive that this would be a chance for me to get to meet people I have been seeing around and for people to know me better. I’ve been a reserved person, so people think that I’m proud. The folks I associate with I later found out that most are corny in character, they’ve said so many things that’s not true about me, so the others avoid me or keep me at great distance.
At the very end, I was not chosen among the participants. I am disappointed that I was led on to face the rounds only to be humiliated with people in sheer mockery asking why I was not selected. I am disappointed that this has been the second big move of my life regarding leadership. And I was just so close. This close and it didn’t happen.
Truthshare
I’m sorry to hear about your challenging experience. It’s tough to face the possibility of rejection or humiliation when putting yourself out there. However, setbacks and disappointments are a natural part of life.
It’s important to remember that your self-worth should not rely on external validation or titles. Take some time to reflect on this and focus on recognizing your values and abilities. Are you pursuing these positions because you genuinely enjoy them, or are you doing it to meet external expectations?
Consider having direct and sincere conversations with the individuals involved if you think that their incorrect assumptions about you contributed to your exclusion. Discuss how you feel and make an effort to clear up any misunderstandings with them.