Am writing this because I don’t want to make a wrong decision for myself.
Something in me keeps telling me I need help because with what has happened to me in life really affect me mentally. As a child who grew up in a broken home and a lot had happened that am still fighting with in my head for me to just let go.
In my relationship life too, this trauma affects me a lot which makes me have these feelings in me that I deserve more. But what makes me write this now is that for like 3years now after my relationship of 4years ended, I lose interest in man generally all the relationship I had after doesn’t work out, the highest relationship was lasted for a month. I discovered I complained a lot, nagged and I always got angry easily. I always feel like I don’t deserve everything that’s happening to me. Please I really need help I don’t want to be lonely forever. What can I do?
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I’m very sorry you’re going through such a tough time; it’s obvious that you’ve been going through a lot of emotional discomfort and trauma.
Consider reaching out to a therapist or counselor who deals with trauma related issues. Focus on your self-care, enjoy activities that makes you happy. You may need to take a break from relationships for now.
Keep in mind that recovery takes time, and it’s okay to seek professional assistance when necessary. You don’t have to deal with these difficulties alone, and you can start working towards a healthier and happier future with the right support.