Am a career person,very good at what I do. I was with my phone one faithful afternoon when I scrolled it was online dating site. Out of curiosity I decided to check it out and before I could know it am already posting nude pictures there. Through the site I met a guy,his a banker and we got along well and exchanged contacts. During one of our whatsapp chat I had to block him because all what he says and text was sex this,sex that. After 3 days of blocking him on WhatsApp he called me,we had to talk things over. He opened up and said since I wasn’t ready for sex why post nude pictures there. I had to apologise and infact I didn’t know what came over me. Now he wants to have a serious relationship with me, I don’t know whether to accept it or not.

He told me during the WhatsApp chat that the lady he wants to marry is a chorister at RCCG but the Lady was always nagging and doesn’t appreciate him that’s why he came into the dating site and he had already given the mother of the Lady Wine telling her his intentions towards her daughter.

Am confused,should I go ahead and date this man. Am currently entering into depression because 2021 my own blood mother chased me out of her house that I should go out and experience the world,I should go out and meet people. I moved out of her house quit well but as it stances I don’t know who to confined in. That act alone still kept me thinking alot till date

I had a cyst that affected my left ovary and fallopian tubes in 2018 so I see myself as a half woman already. I can’t possibly be playing hide and seek with men in that condition.

The man I met on the dating site who is insisting he wants to have serious relationship with me,I haven’t told him about the operation I had and how my blood mother drove me out of her house. Please I need your advice. Thanks.

1 Comment
  • Truthshare
    5:30 PM, 28 September 2023

    In every relationship, it’s important to put your own happiness and well-being first. It’s crucial to have a healthy level of self-esteem and self-worth. Posting nude pictures online, especially if it makes you uncomfortable, might not be the best way to build your self-esteem. Focus on building a relationship that makes you feel good about yourself.

    The key to a successful relationship with this man is being open and honest with him. You should speak with him about your past encounters, current health situation, and worries. He need to be supportive and understanding if he truly cares for you. Also, Be careful of anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable or primarily discusses sexual issues. It’s crucial to make sure that the relationship is built on esteem, confidence, and shared principles.

    If you’re experiencing depression, it’s crucial to seek professional help. A counselor can assist you in dealing with your feelings and navigating complex life situations. At the end of the day; the decision to date this man should be based on what feels right for you and aligns with your values and well-being.

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