I’m getting depressed and toxic by the day. I’m currently in a relationship with a lady I love so much, I meet her a year plus; she’s a crazy type full of vibes and does everything I want. I can’t imagine myself without her.
She’s 29yrs old and I’m 34 but now the issue is I have this lady I have been in relationship with since my University days. I have even paid her bride price like 2yrs ago after much pressure from her but all I feel is as if I’m just being loyal to her for standing with me all this year’s.
She’s more reserved don’t do alot of things I wish to see my woman does and when I try telling her she used it against me when we have a fight; I’m confuse and don’t know what to do and it affecting my relationship with both of them. We are all working class and comfortable with good jobs. the whole thing it making depressed and toxic toward them. Please help
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I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through a difficult situation; you need to prioritize your mental and emotional well-being. Consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor to help you navigate your feelings.
Ensure you’re not compromising your happiness for the sake of loyalty, communicate your feelings, doubts, and concerns, desires and what you’re looking for in a relationship.
Ultimately, you may need to make a decision regarding your relationship; you can choose to work on improving the relationship with your partner or decide to part ways if you feel it’s best for both of you. Be fair and honest in your decision-making.