I have been dating a man for 11 years, we have a son together. I asked him many times the plans he has for us, if he is not getting married to me he should allow me to go on and marry the suitors I have coming .
He gets angry and most times threaten to kill me. I am tired and want to settle down and starty family. I am 37 years old ND he is 59 years. He wouldn’t allow me work , he loves to pay bills , he moved to a new house and I don’t know where he lives he has never taken me to his house but he knows where my son and I lives.
Any time I want is to discuss that he flares up or don’t give me any answer. I am tired and really wants to move on. The fear of lack of finances is there because he pays my bills.