I and my partner have been having some issues lately, now she have been stating a request for space between us . In her word she requested for some months break from the relationship.
Please note, I love her and she do love me too, no trust issues between us, and she has been helpful, supportive all the way back.
This misunderstanding started September, all I could understand is she felt my financial status that as changed since last year could be caused by our connection. She wanted space for us to focus on our lives separately but I have never heard of such idea. I have been financial setback since last year August and she as be a supporter financially and prayer section, moral advices etc. Now I guess she is tired and wants to leave but I still love her and i don’t want to leave her or the relationship. What can I do ? Should I give the space or not?
Truthshare
Communication is important in every relationship. Have a talk with her; listen to her so you can understand her concerns and fears. Talk about solutions that would help maintain the relationship like having a good financial plan.
At the end of the day, respect her decision if she continues to insist on the space. Pressuring her to stay would be unhealthy for both your mental health. Use the time to work on improving your financial stability and personal growth.
Remember, every relationship is different and honest and open communication is important for any relationship to workout.
Olami
Thanks for this tips on how to work my relationship out. I’m fear is letting have her space now as she wanted, I might not get her back again.
Is it possible I could get her back?
Truthshare
It’s possible you may not. Having this at heart would help you in the course of your healing journey. It would make it hurt less.