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Hi, I’m a lady in my early twenties married with a son who’s not up to a year. I just graduated from university this year as I’m currently unemployed. I’ve been experiencing marital crises, series of arguments and domestic abuse. My husband is hot tempered and shouts at the slightest provocation and when I reply, it becomes a huge fight, he tend to hit me with various items or abuses me emotionally and even separate me from my little boy. He smokes inside our house where we have a little baby and I fear for the health of my boy. I really regret marrying him and this has affected our sexual life. Often times when I refuse him sex, it becomes a big issue. Now I’m considering divorce, I don’t want my child to grow up in an abusive home or learn that sort of behavior from his father. He provides as a husband and a father but then counts favors all the time. We quarrel over the slightest issues and even fight every month. I’ll need your advice, I’m really young I don’t know if there’s a remedy for this problem. What do you advise please?