Falling in love has been Soo hard for me lately, after my last relationship. I gave my all to that relationship and even had my first sex with her just to satisfy her urges. It became a norm for me since she was addicted to it. I tried forgiving her past we moved on, and she still later cheated on me.
Ever since last year I have always met with people i love, but things would just work like the past relationship.
I found a new love the one I cherish Soo much, but she has similar past as my ex. She has slept with men while she was much younger this is always getting to me. In as much as I love her, and she does love me my heart creeps to know if she’s going to be like my ex again.
Above all my heart’s isn’t feeling right I feel too much burden thinking of how I can’t forgive this past of hers, knowing I wasn’t the first guy in her life to have done those past with.
I feel like love always fails me, and I keep trying my best to get it right. It just seems like every lady aren’t pure, true, and honest.
I really do love this my babe now. But when I remember her past life my heart’s beats Soo fast. I wonder if her ex keeps disturbing her or any guy. I just feel Soo weak and scared with over jealousy.
I need help!!!
I need real love !!!
I need honesty!!!
Truthshare
It’s quite common to experience hurt and fear following a challenging relationship. Any healthy relationship must have trust, and once it’s been compromised, it can be difficult to rebuild it but with the right support you can. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by jealousy or insecurity, it may be helpful to set healthy boundaries in your relationship. Discuss with your partner what behaviors are acceptable and unacceptable to both of you.
If you find it difficult to overcome these feelings on your own, consider seeking professional help. A therapist or counselor can provide guidance and support as you work through your emotions and concerns. Realising that everyone has a past, and that people can change is important. Try to keep your focus on this very moment, as well as the many benefits of your present relationship. Your ability to move forward may be affected by too much of past reflection.
Understanding your own emotions can help you communicate more effectively with your partner and work towards building a healthier relationship. Remember that building a successful and fulfilling relationship takes time and effort from both partners. It’s okay to seek support and take things at a pace that feels comfortable for both of you.
Anonymous
You perhaps want to keep sex away from this relationship and build it well with knowledge.
Focus and understand who she is as a person.
That would be more helpful for you than adding sex to the mix.