My fiancé travelled out of the country. I supported him so he can pursue his career, while I stayed back to pursue mine and finish up with school and collect my certificate.
Two months down the line now, i did most of the calling for a week now.
He does not call back and we we talk it seems like I was disturbing him. I have asked him times without number what the issue was but he does not always give me a valid response. He is always saying nothing.
Throughout today, I did not call him with hopes that he will give me a call or at least reach out but he did not do any of them.
When i called him later this evening, he said he was on the road that he will come me back, its been two hours and I am yet to see his call, I called him back but NO answer.
I just wish to know If I am wasting my time still staying in this relationship or I should just call the whole thing off, I have insomnia especially when the thought comes into my head. This was not the agreement we HAD.
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Communication is key in any relationship to work; before making any decisions, it might be helpful to have a serious and open conversation with your fiancé about your concerns and how his behavior is affecting you. Express your feelings and give him the opportunity to explain his side of the situation.
After having this talk, if you’re still feeling insecure and unhappy in the relationship, it’s important to put your own well-being first and decide whether or not you would want to stay in the relationship. It’s okay to ask for help navigating your thoughts and coming to the best decision for yourself from friends, family, or a therapist.