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I have a boyfriend and he is some girl's dream, but somehow he is not mine. He doesn’t honestly know how to be affectionate in his actions. He doesn’t know how to make me feel important, he doesn’t know how to give or do things considerably without him being told. Just by him thinking about it and doing it, instead he expects me to tell him how to be sweet to me. Quick example: not too long ago we had a serious talk, where I told him I wouldn't want to tell him how to love me, he should just know the extents he should go for me without me having to tell him. And he stood on what he said "you have to tell me these things". I was sincerely like I have to tell you that you should consider coming to visit me? Or genuinely buying me gifts without me having to tell you? " babe gift me this thing". I'm so sorry if I sound so selfish, but I do things without being told it, shows how much I care. But when I have to tell him what to do for me, it looks like I'm doing myself good through another person, and I don't have the energy for that tbh. I really don't feel love is meant to be forced. Just imagine, how will I be the one to tell him that " oh baby since you don't have any office to resume to in the morning(he works from home) and I do you should come pay me a visit" He thinks everything is money(which he doesn’t have rn. Work has not been coming quite easy. And this no money situationhas been since I met him. I honestlydid not complain, but me trying to explainto him that there are wats to love me without money, but he doesn’twant to. And moreover he has only given me money once withoutbeing told, but we had a conversation around the topic the previous night.) I would honestly have said this but he said this during our conversation" I don't like being forced to doing things, I will feel bad while doing it". This shows me, he is ignorant and unwilling to learn. I tried breaking up with him a couple of times, but he feels like a leach, not wanting to let go. And now I really need help to make me break up with me and not me initiating this one.