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I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. Have you considered networking more and also learn a vocational skill? This can open new opportunities to you. Also, whilst it may not seem like much, have you considered taking a job outside your area of study? it could help you get an income and also get experience. Be hopeful, talk to someone about how you are feeling. try not to compare yourself to your pairs

This really helped. I have applied for a skill to bring in August but it’s just difficult to talk to people vex I don’t keep friends and I don’t have one either. family keeps saying “ u will be fine “ but dey don’t see it or know how I feel inside. as for the job! I’m still applying

please, can I call someone that ended things with me but promised that we couldn’t work things out? I promised to call me back for two weeks now but he hasn’t and he is on my social media actively online. can I put a call across? I really want to speak with him because im tired of waiting and I don’t know what to say to him

it may seem like it's taking forever, remember to stay positive and keep putting in your best. thankfully you have a good support system to fall back to. Have you considered going out more, so you could engage and network with people possible make friends?

I understand that moving on can be really hard, especially if you love a person. But, considering how the relationship ended don't you think it's best to try and move on? It may hard and painful but, try to focus on yourself and how to improve your well-being. Speaking to a therapist may help you feel better. They can help you find ways to handle the rush of emotions you are currently dealing with. You deserve to be genuinely happy and loved.

I’m working on that

I don’t know how to get a therapist as dey always requests for money that I don’t have to pay that was y I seemed your help here

why do you want to speak with your ex again, are you seeking closure or you think it's possible that you both rekindle your relationship? Have you thought of how worse you would feel if he doesn't see the need to talk to you; since he was the one who ended things and said you can't work it out. It's important you weigh in on the options and try to respect boundaries as you try to heal.

wow!!! this is like the best I have heard so far. really appreciate just that most times I get to remember him and miss him. can suggest ways to heal faster

Healing is a gradual process, it would take a while to actually heal and get over your ex. It's important to prioritize your well-being and focus on things that make you happy. Engage in activities that bring you joy, and also stay around people who you can communicate with. You deserve to be loved, respected and treated right.

thank u so much